The 3 Simple Reasons Why Girls Friendzone You.
You will agree with me that getting ‘friendzoned’ is the most painful thing when it comes to male-female social dynamics. The funny thing is, most guys don’t even know when they are in the friendzone. But What does it mean to get friendzoned?
In literal terms, to get friendzoned by a girl is to be considered as just a friend, with no hope of intimacy; or to be considered as a big brother, the one who provides her basic needs and gives her advice.
Once you are in the dark abyss of friendzone, your chances of ever seeing the light of day is slim. It’s even better for you to be dumped as a boyfriend ( yea, guys do get dumped too!) than for you to be lost in the friendzone with no hope of rescue. This article aims to bring to the foreground of your mind the three basic reasons why girls always see you as a big brother; or to put it more succinctly, a ‘MAGA’.
1. You Are Mr. Too-Nice.
” Wooooo…oww!” Hannah said gushingly, as she side hugged Emeka. ” It’so beautiful, thanks for the gift Emeka”
“Oh my dear, don’t worry…it’s nothing,” Emeka replied, his voice laced with a tinge of pride. He dipped his hand into his wallet, removed some wads of cash, and tucked it into Hannah’s palm. ” Baby, just manage this N10,000 for the weekend.”
Hannah, obviously engulfed with emotion, and beaming with smiles from ear to ear, pecked him. ” You are so nice and caring Emeka… Thanks!!”
“Don’t mention dear, I will always be there for you”, he promised. He slowly side hugged her, cautiously making sure his arm or shoulders didn’t touch or go near her huge melon-sized boobs, which screamed for attention in her blue figure-hugging crop top. “Don’t forget my request dear.”
Hannah. ” Oh, I wont forget…dont worry, I will think about it Emeka, after my exams.”
Emeka breathed a sigh of relief, brought his palms together, like he was about to utter a mantra. ” I hope it’s going to be a yes!” ” I can’t wait for you to be my girl, Hannah.”.
Sounds familiar? Are you like Emeka when it comes to dating? You are very nice. In fact, you get compliments from girls about how nice you are nice to a fault. But sadly, this is reality – not Hollywood, where the nice, shy, and feeble-minded protagonist finishes first.
Not to sound misogynistic or crude, giving favours to girls who dont deserve it will only backfire in the long run. It will not only kill your game; it will also make you look cheap.
DON’T BE LIKE EMEKA!!!
Before you can start playing nice to a girl, and saying yes to her to her requests, you need a certain level of investment from her-which brings us to the next point.